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Starts a conversation with someone you both already fit. The first message is from the matchmaker. It can name shared interests and an ice-breaker from each of you. Only people who turned the matchmaker on are included. Turn it on in Settings.

Move on from Riley?

You both stop showing up for each other. A chat you already have stays readable, and new messages stop. Either of you can delete it.

You both moved on. You can still read this. New messages are stopped.

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Photos & Details

Up to 6 photos. The first is your main Discover picture. Each one is resized before it uploads.

First name Location Radius (miles)

Towns you'll travel to

Other people see the town, not the exact point. A radius includes everyone inside both circles. Your hometown counts on its own. A town list matches when each of you includes the other's town. People match if either the radius or the towns fit. Clear the radius if you only want those towns. Leave the location blank and nobody nearby can show up.

Age

18 or older. There is no upper limit.

Height

Enter total inches, or feet and inches like 6'2". It shows as 6 ft 2 in (74 in).

Weight (lbs)

Delete account

This deletes your profile, messages, and email. You can sign up again with that email later.

Every tag shows how many people use it. A tag joins the shared list once 10 people use it, and it stays even if people take it off.

About me

These describe you. Green is a core trait. White is true, but not a big deal. Black is a boundary. If someone else has the same tag in black, that shared stance counts toward a match.

Looking for

These describe a partner. Green favors that trait, and the weight decides how much. White means you are fine either way. Black hides people who have it, and hides you from them.

Practice tag. This screen only. Nothing is saved.

This describes you

Weight

Blank counts as 1. You can go past 10.

Filters

Optional. A blank filter hides nobody. If you set one, it works both ways: people outside it do not see you, and you do not see them.

Your gender Looking for gender Your race or ethnicity

Looking for race or ethnicity

Leave them unchecked for no filter. Pick every group you want included.

Partner age minimum Partner age maximum

18 or older. Leave a box blank for no limit on that side. Someone who has not entered an age stays visible.

Partner height minimum Partner height maximum Partner weight minimum (lbs) Partner weight maximum (lbs) Partner BMI minimum Partner BMI maximum

Your BMITurns height and weight into one number, so you can look for a lighter or heavier build. Set a minimum, a maximum, or both. The same number is used for every gender. is calculated from your height and weight. These boxes are the range you want in a partner. Leave a box blank for no limit on that side. Someone who left height or weight blank stays visible only when yours is blank too.

Avoid people open to casual / friends with benefits Avoid people open to a relationship

Someone who picked both is hidden from anyone avoiding either one. It works both ways. A blank choice does not hide you.

What you make a year Amount

From To

Income you're looking for

Around matches within 15%.

Amount

From To

Who can see what you make Black-list people who share income or filter by it

Your amount stays hidden from people who have not shared income, unless you choose Anyone. Hide me removes people who left income blank, both ways. Black-list removes people who use income at all, both ways.

Body details

Set your gender, and who you're looking for. A man adds his length. A woman picks one cup size. Looking for a man opens length ranges. Looking for a woman opens cup sizes.

Your length (inches)

Length you're looking for

Around matches within 15%. A blank answer stays unless you choose Hide me.

Inches

From To

Your cup size

Cup sizes you're looking for

Leave them unchecked for no filter. A blank answer stays unless you choose Hide me.

Who can see body details Black-list people who share a body detail or filter by one

This covers length and cup size together. Sharing either one lets you see the other person's body details. Groin hair stays separate.

Groin hair Your groin hair

Groin hair you're looking for

Leave them unchecked for no filter. A blank answer stays unless you choose Hide me.

Who can see groin hair Black-list people who share groin hair or filter by it

What you're looking for Relationship Casual / friends with benefits

Pick one, both, or neither. Someone avoiding a choice will not see a profile that includes it.

Whoa, you've got a lot to say! A very long bio can be intimidating.

Bio

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Allow Anonymous Feedback Anyone who views your profile can leave an anonymous note.

Tour

A walk through your profile, tags, a practice chat, Move on, and the matchmaker.

Matchmaker

Press Introduce me on Discover. It starts a conversation with someone you both already fit, and the first message is from the matchmaker. It stays off until you turn it on. Someone else pressing the button does not include you while it is off.

Take part in the matchmaker Off until you turn it on.

Ice-breakers

Up to three lines, 200 characters each. The matchmaker may include one of yours and one of theirs.

Ice-breaker 1 Ice-breaker 2 Ice-breaker 3

Appearance

These colors stay on your screen. Other people keep their own. The choice is saved on your account, so your phone and computer match.

Dark mode Turns the white areas into medium and dark gray.

Accent color

Custom color

Moved on

People here are off Discover for both of you. Put back brings you both back, and a closed chat can take new messages again.

Tag

Tag name

Turn on About me, Looking for, or both. Each side keeps its own color and weight.

About me

This describes you

Weight Set how much this trait matters to you. Use 1 to 10. Blank counts as 1. Higher numbers stand out more. You can go past 10. On a black tag, the weight is how firmly you hold that boundary. A shared black tag adds the lower of the two weights. It is called strong when you both set 10 or more.

1 to 10. Blank counts as 1. You can go past 10.

Looking for

Added as an interest

Weight Set how much a partner's trait matters. Use 1 to 10. Blank counts as 1. Green tags with higher weights come first. White tags do not rank. Black tags hide the trait. You can go past 10.

1 to 10. Blank counts as 1. Higher green weights come first. You can go past 10.

Additional info (optional) Use this when a tag is on both About me and Looking for and you want different notes. The top box is yours. The bottom box is what you're looking for. Swap exchanges them. Merge puts them back into one note.

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Delete your account?

This deletes your profile, messages, and email. You can sign up again with that email later.

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Move on

Delete this conversation?

This removes the conversation for both of you. It does not undo Move on.

The matchmaker

Introduce me starts a conversation with someone you both already fit. The first message is from the matchmaker. It can name shared interests and an ice-breaker from each of you.

It stays off until you turn it on. You can change that later in Settings.

These buttons

We Matched

Press We Matched if things clicked. If they confirm, a success is saved when you both want a relationship, or you both want casual. Mixed or blank intent still shows here. Your tags stay as you set them.

Move on

Hides you both from each other on Discover. Stops new messages, but leaves the chat history readable. Undo it anytime in Settings.

Keep

Protects this chat from the 90-day cleanup.

Delete

Permanently removes this conversation for both of you. This does not undo Move on. Put back in Settings does that.